Purging

The thought of purging girly items by a cd isn't very unconventional, every once in a while there comes a moment when they think it is best to leave their dressing behind and move forward with their lives. The important question here is - does purging ever helps? umm according to me No it never does, because crossdressing isn't some fun activity which we indulge ourselves in our leisure time, it's an unconscious desire which takes over us time and time again. We find ourselves spinning inside this wheel all our life.

There are many things which can make a person opt for purging, such as :-

* Feeling guilt of being a cd
* Constant fear of getting caught by friends or family
* Getting married
* Being forced to change lifestyle by some loved ones

There are many other points which i can add to this list, but according to me the most important one has to be the 1st point (feeling guilt of being a cd), i had chatted extensively with cd's around the world over past 8 years of my internet life, i have realized that most of them feel ashamed and sad about who they are. Almost every single one of them feels that they are living a life
which they wished never should have existed in the first place. So in order to achieve a stability in their life they try to leave their cd'ing behind, they just don't understand one thing, that they can't leave something which wasn't forced on them by anyone. They were destined to be who they are, so it's best to accept that and make the best of it.

So according to my experience if a person tries to curb their desires and goes into an exile, they should know the fact that they will only come back to their previous life with more enthusiasm and with much BANG!

simi x